Proper Wording For Memorial Urns
Families grieving the loss of a cherished loved one may have a difficult time planning the memorial. It is hard to honor an entire lifetime in under an hour. There are a few things that can help convey a message directly on memorial urns. This is why it is so important to select the appropriate wording when having an urn engraved.
Placing words directly on the cremation urn offer a silent way to make a statement about the departed. It could be as simple as the loved one’s name with a date of birth and death, or something more elaborate.
If you are going the elaborate route, make sure you really scrutinize the quote, saying, or words you place on the urn. Remember, the cremation urn will possibly be kept for many decades or longer. This is another reason why making the right wording choice is so important.
When you begin, consider things that were important to the departed. Did they have a life long career choice or membership with an organization that they were proud of? You might want to take an image or quote themed around the career or organization and have it engraved on the urn.
Some companies also offer medallions that can be hung on or near memorial urns. These can be engraved with an emblem, adding a personal touch to the display. Even if you plan to scatter the ashes, the medallion can be kept as a memento from this significant event in the family’s history.
It is often best to avoid wording that could be misunderstood or taken the wrong way. Sensitive subjects within the family should not be included. If you are not sure, you are probably better off to keep looking. At the very least, have another family member or two look at the wording and give some feedback.
Keep a list of potential wordings and add to it when anything strikes you. You can narrow the list down later and get the help of other family and friends to provide opinions on the best options. Getting everyone involved will also make them feel like a part of the process which may help with grieving.
Find the best memorial urn wording that fits the departed’s life and character. Asking for help from other family members doesn’t hurt, and could help them through the healing process.
